分開同居

分開同居（英語：living apart together，縮寫為LAT），或稱為分居式共同生活，是指伴侶間保持著親密的關係、但並不住在一起的現象。^[1]^[2]

據統計，在英國約有10%的成年人選擇分開同居的生活方式。這一數字相當於所有未婚或未同居的人口的四分之一。而在比利時、法國、德國、荷蘭、挪威、瑞典等歐洲國家，選擇這種同居分式的人數也保持著類似的比例。^[3]^[4]研究還表明，南歐國家也有著相似甚至更高的比例，不過這些國家的分開同居伴侶通常住在父母家中。^[5]澳大利亞、加拿大與美國的調查也發現，6%至9%的成年人有一位不與他/她同住的伴侶。^[6]^[7]^[8]分開同居的生活方式正逐漸受到更多地理解與接受，選擇分開同居的伴侶對相互間親密關係的忠誠與承諾的期待並不亞於結婚或同居的伴侶。^[5]

分開同居的現象並不局限於歐美國家。在中國，「走婚」的人數也越來越多。北京大學法學院婦女法律研究與服務中心主任郭建梅表示：「走婚制反映了中國社會的迅猛變化」。而在中國的少數民族摩梭人中，傳統上就歷來有著走婚的習俗。摩梭男子會在半夜到女方家中，並在天亮前離開。^[9]同時，在古代日本社會也有著類似的訪妻婚。而在中東地區，亦有著被稱為「旅人婚姻」（Nikah Misyar）的臨時婚姻制度，夫妻雙方定期見面但並不同住。^[10]

知名的分開同居伴侶包括弗雷德里克·蕭邦與喬治·桑、讓-保羅·薩特與西蒙·波伏娃等。

參見

參考文獻

^ Strohm CQ, Seltzer JA, Cochran SD, Mays VM. "Living Apart Together" relationships in the United States. Demogr Res. 2009, 21: 177–214. PMC 3091814  . PMID 21566723. doi:10.4054/demres.2009.21.7.
^ Aart C. Liefbroer; Anne-Rigt Poortman; Judith Seltzer. Why do intimate partners live apart? Evidence on LAT relationships across Europe. [2018-07-05]. doi:10.4054/DemRes.2015.32.8. （原始內容存檔於2019-12-05）. |volume=被忽略 (幫助)
^ Levin I. Living Apart Together: A New Family Form. Current Sociology. 2004, 52 (2): 223–240. doi:10.1177/0011392104041809.
^ Haskey J. Living arrangements in contemporary Britain: Having a partner who usually lives elsewhere and Living Apart Together (LAT). Population Trends. 2005, 122: 35–45.
^ ^5.0 ^5.1 Duncan S, Phillips M. People who live apart together (LATs) – how different are they?. The Sociological Review. 2010, 58 (1): 112–134. doi:10.1111/j.1467-954x.2009.01874.x.
^ Reimondos, A., Evans, A. and Gray, E. (2011) Living-apart-together (LAT) Relationships in Australia, Family Matters, Vol. 87: 43-55
^ Strohm C, Selzer JA, Cochran SD, Mays V. Living apart together" relationships in the United States. Demographic Research. 2010, 21 (7): 177–214. PMC 3091814  . PMID 21566723. doi:10.4054/demres.2009.21.7.
^ Milan, A., & Peters, A. (2003). Couples living apart. Canadian Social Trends, Summer, 2–6.
^ Gargan, Edward A. China's New Brides Put Freedom First/All perks, no work in 'walking marriages'. Newsday. 19 March 2001: A.04.
^ Karam, Souhail. Misyar offers marriage-lite in strict Saudi society. The Boston Globe. Reuters. 21 July 2006 [2018-07-05]. （原始內容存檔於2009-02-18）.

[1] Strohm CQ, Seltzer JA, Cochran SD, Mays VM. "Living Apart Together" relationships in the United States. Demogr Res. 2009, 21: 177–214. PMC 3091814  . PMID 21566723. doi:10.4054/demres.2009.21.7.

[2] Aart C. Liefbroer; Anne-Rigt Poortman; Judith Seltzer. Why do intimate partners live apart? Evidence on LAT relationships across Europe. [2018-07-05]. doi:10.4054/DemRes.2015.32.8. （原始內容存檔於2019-12-05）. |volume=被忽略 (幫助)

[3] Levin I. Living Apart Together: A New Family Form. Current Sociology. 2004, 52 (2): 223–240. doi:10.1177/0011392104041809.

[4] Haskey J. Living arrangements in contemporary Britain: Having a partner who usually lives elsewhere and Living Apart Together (LAT). Population Trends. 2005, 122: 35–45.

[#1-5] 5.0 ^5.1 Duncan S, Phillips M. People who live apart together (LATs) – how different are they?. The Sociological Review. 2010, 58 (1): 112–134. doi:10.1111/j.1467-954x.2009.01874.x.

[6] Reimondos, A., Evans, A. and Gray, E. (2011) Living-apart-together (LAT) Relationships in Australia, Family Matters, Vol. 87: 43-55

[7] Strohm C, Selzer JA, Cochran SD, Mays V. Living apart together" relationships in the United States. Demographic Research. 2010, 21 (7): 177–214. PMC 3091814  . PMID 21566723. doi:10.4054/demres.2009.21.7.

[8] Milan, A., & Peters, A. (2003). Couples living apart. Canadian Social Trends, Summer, 2–6.

[9] Gargan, Edward A. China's New Brides Put Freedom First/All perks, no work in 'walking marriages'. Newsday. 19 March 2001: A.04.

[10] Karam, Souhail. Misyar offers marriage-lite in strict Saudi society. The Boston Globe. Reuters. 21 July 2006 [2018-07-05]. （原始內容存檔於2009-02-18）.

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